Friday, March 25, 2016

Goodbye Experience Project

EP

I have been neglecting my logs of late, partly because real life has been unbearably awful for a number of reasons that I won’t go into here, but also because I had got very distracted by a fantastic social media website I stumbled upon called Experience Project.

I had only been on Experience Project for about a month, but it was the best (online) fun I had ever had, and it was, and still is for now, my absolute favourite place on the internet.

I originally joined EP to find friends (preferable female, as I’m married so not looking for a partner) to chat about ANR/ABF and inducing lactation, and there were literally hundreds of groups on this topic on EP, and it was a really nice, friendly place where you could be open about the topic.

Unfortunately, Experience Project announce this week that it is pulling the plug and its virtual doors will close on 21st April. I can’t tell you how sad and disappointed I feel about this; since, although I have Twitter and Facebook I haven’t enjoyed them for a while (and I hate facebook’s tyranny, what a bunch of bleepers), and there doesn’t seem to be anywhere comparable to EP to go to.

RelateToThat seems like the best of a bad bunch. I hope that, if they have a huge influx of new members migrating over from EP, the owners will make some investment and improve the site, as it’s not a patch on EP currently.

I don’t believe the given reasons for EP’s demise, ie trolls and government demands and interference. Anonymity, until facebook came along and ruined everything, was a cornerstone of internet safety, and there is no way that ever site that allows anonymity will have to change. Every single forum that I know of or have ever been part of allows anonymity.

No, I think it’s just a cowardly smokescreen for the fact that EP hasn’t attracted enough advertising revenue or supporter funding, and most importantly, the founder and owner has lost interest. I won’t say how disgusted I am that he did nothing to address the issues or ask supporters and members what we wanted or allow us to suggest solutions.

But there it is. The announcement claims the website and data will continue to be there even though we won’t be able to post anymore. For as long as that’s true, my profile is MrsChakotay.

I had originally planned to post a story in ever single group I joined (over 1000 at the last count) but that doesn’t look possible now, although I might have a good try while I still can. I am toying with the idea of using my EP group titles as potential topics for this blog. We’ll see. I won’t get bored or lost for ideas anyway.

I’d like to thank all my lovely EP fans and friends for making my EP experience a good one (as an aside, I only really had one bad experience, and that was being judged and unfriended by a fellow Christian who wasn’t comfortable with ME being comfortable with MY sexuality, but I’m just going to laugh about that and let it be. Each to their own.). And so I’d like to invite you to join me on Twitter, Facebook, RelateToThat or here on WordPress. I hope we will keep in contact one way or the other.

Yours, Kathryn.

LLAP

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The Spring Burlap Removal Project at the Farm

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A Masterclass for new moms!

How does a workshop customised for new moms and mums to be sound? Great! Right? Mompreneurs and industry experts along with experienced moms have come together to organise this one of a kind workshop which will give you a first hand experience of what lies ahead in the parenting journey. Tag your partner along so that he gets a sneak peak too!

Why should you attend this workshop?

All babies want to be carried but you as a full time caregiver may have limitations.Wearing your baby can be considered as a full upgrade of the precious time you spend with your little one. Baby wearing primarily improves the quality of life for the caregivers as well as new little. Having experienced the benefits of babywearing for themselves, two of India’s top Babywearing brands,  Almitra and Cookiie Baby Carriers come together to bring you a workshop like never before.

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A beautiful soft structured carrier by Cookiie

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A gorgeous wrap by Almitra

You get to learn from the Indian babywearing industry leaders and cloth diapering experts how making a choice to wear your baby and using eco friendly diapers can make life convenient for you and your baby. Meet parents who have been wearing and cloth diapering their little ones right from their infancy.
Some of the primary reasons, new parents are giving babywearing and Cloth diapering a warm welcome are listed below.
• Babywearing gives you freedom to explore life with the little one. You get two free hands and a whole lot of options, while keeping baby safe at all times.
• You and baby can bond better with baby learning how you interact with the world and reading your expressions.
• Wearing your baby excercises some of the core muscles of our body. A happier baby and a fitter you !
• Wearing baby improves lactation and learning nursing cues
• You nurture happier, calmer babies…its that simple !
• Wearing promotes a secure attachment development between caregivers and babies
• It decreases colic, fussiness, reflux in smaller babies
• Holding baby closer enhances neuro functions, brain development and early learning.
• Most of all it keeps you happy ! Wearing your baby is known to release oxytocin – the famous love hormone and decrease stress hormones in the caregiver and babies.
• Cloth Diapering is the most natural and pocket friendly way for baby’s diapering requirement.
• You contribute to the environment and your baby’s wellbeing.
• Breastfeeding lessens risk of breast cancer and post partum depression in younger mothers.
• Breast fed babies are protected against diseases with natural antibodies being passed on from mum to baby.
• Ensures a consistent and safe nourishment for growing babies.

Join them this Easter Sunday to know more and experience the benefits of babywearing, breastfeeding and cloth diapering yourself.



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Thursday, March 24, 2016

What Happened When I Went Undercover at an Anti-Abortion Conference


What Happened When I Went Undercover at an Anti-Abortion Conference
I've been on pro-choice marches and protests, but I wanted to see the abortion debate up close from the other side. At least, that's how I ended up at a training day in London for anti-abortion activists.

March 25, 2016 at 01:54AM
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One Traveler May Have Brought Zika to the Americas in 2013


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Favorite Moment of a First-Year Doctor


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Zika Virus Isn't the Problem With the Rio Olympics; Tropical Games Never Work


Zika Virus Isn't the Problem With the Rio Olympics; Tropical Games Never Work
The XXXI Summer Olympics are set to kick off on August 5. For that reason, news organizations around the globe are asking whether a viral outbreak could affect the games. The real question is whether the International Olympic Committee jeopardized the games by deciding to hold an Olympics in the tropics in the first place.

March 24, 2016 at 10:16PM
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