The definition of a Hucow according to Urban Dictionary (surprisingly the best working definition here) is a woman who chooses to be objectified for her large breast and her ability to lactate constantly. There is a lot to this world that I have found so this will be pt.1 to the series when I discover more than just this.
With that being established I asked multiple people that I found what it was that drew them to this fetish, and how they chose to execute it. There was a wide range of what it meant to enjoy this. Some less into the cow aspect and more into just the lactation, while others enjoyed the lactation and cow aspect.
One of the ways this was explained to me was in the dominant-submissive aspect, and the lactation being an extension of that. So, with that being said the way dominance works into this is that the woman isn’t “choosing to lactate” and “her breasts grew, and started leaking, because that’s what she’s ‘meant’ for”. With the lack of that control some people find it to be further objectification. The girl doesn’t have any control over the tits she has, because she can’t control her lactation. “You didn’t do this to your breasts, your breasts did this to you” was what one man told me and in short sums up that mentality. Some people find this to be a more simple urge than the difficulties of sex.
I was was curious how someone would find that this is what they enjoy because it seems rare for someone to wake up one day with an interest in drinking their partners milk in a sexual way. (opposed to a casual way of drinking breast milk ??)
One of the men I talked to said they discovered their love for breast milk after the birth of their second child. The baby wasn’t able to drink all the milk himself and so he “latched onto one [tit] and it tasted so good I started suckling her every night I wasn’t working.” That’s one way to go about discovering the joys of breast milk. Eventually the woman in this relationship stopped breast feeding, however many years later she told her partner she loved the feeling of him drinking her milk. So the enjoyment here was mutual and not just the man objectifying in this case.
Other people often come across stories on fetish erotica websites. (Posted a link for some at the end of this article for the curious, I’d recommend looking. for science.) The erotica can really push the limit. Going off dominance for being the reason people enjoy this fetish is seeing their partner at their breaking limit. One person told me the “ultimate high” is when his partner is at the breaking limit and succumbs to the desires of her partner and accepts herself as a cow. Milking herself, mooing in pleasure, being on her hands and knees for her “farmer”. (yes, I’m serious this is what I discovered. )
In many of these dominant situations the dom is called the “farmer” and the sub [submissive] is the “cow.”. There are forums online for people to find each other because as you’d imagine to community is relatively small. Sometimes there are just stories, other times it’s different levels of intensity for how far one is willing to go to transform into a “cow”.
To be continued…how one transforms into a cow and further look into the workings of a cow/farmer relationship.
Link to erotica for the curious: http://ift.tt/1OJUxGN
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